Mara "Imej Anda Aset Anda" 2nd Series Workshop (11th-14th July 2011)

Proton VIP Day 2nd Phase @ Suffolk House Penang (2nd & 3rd July 2011)

University Tun Hussein Onn "You Are Your Best Asset" Workshop ( 22nd June 2011 )

Image Workshop For Ambank Wealth Advisors (11.06.11)

Image Talk with 100 participants from Ambank consist of Personal Bankers & Wealth Managers.

Cheers!

Wanita Hari Ini Interview (08.06.11)

Adamaya Image & Grooming Workshop

Mara "Imej Anda Aset Anda" Workshop

It was held at Suria Resort Cherating, from 9th- 12th May 2011 and attended by 50 Mara Executives.

It was a Fun and a Memorable Experience getting to know them.

A fruitful and long term collaboration.

All The Best to All!!

Asia e University Open Day 2011

Would you like to learn a syllabus about image. Good Collaboration with Asia e University which has participation of 32 countries all over Asia! Adamaya Image Consultancy going global.

Cheers!!!

Charity Hi-Tea Malaysian Embassy Jakarta March 2011

Hi, I must admit that I have felt guilty many times thinking that I have not been updating my blog due to my really tight schedule this past months. So i decided to post a few pictures from my recent trip to Jakarta last week.

I was conducting a Charity Hi Tea event organized by the Malaysian Embassy to raise fund for the street children of Jakarta.

It was graced by our very own DPM's wife Puan Sri Noorainee Abdul Rahman and attended by a few cabinet Ministers wives of Indonesia , ambassadors wives and well known entrepreneurs groups and socialites of Jakarta.

It was always great to work and collaborate with the Embassy as it is the best platform to network with the who's who of Indonesia and to learn more about their culture and their way of life.

I truly treasure and value this great opportunity given to me and I thank god for his blessing and the people involved who had trusted my abilities and had faith in me of which I trust it will be a longterm collaboration. I

I treat Jakarta as my second home. It's either you love it or you hate it. I love it as I see so many business potential that I can explore there provided you team up with the right people.

Well here are the pics of myself with the DPM's wife Pn Sri Noorainee, Yg Terhormat Ibu Sranya Natalegawa the Foreign Affairs Minister's wife, Ibu Karlina Chandra the owner of Bluebird taxi company , Ibu Mooryati Soedibyio the founder of Mustika Ratu, cabinet ministers wives of Indonesia and my dearest cousin ambassadress Datin Sharifah Ikhlas and Dato Syed Munshi the ambassador who had open the doors for me to penetrate Jakarta.

God bless.

Thanks for reading.

A Hopefull Year 2011

As I was putting my daughter to sleep I just realized how fast she had grown up . It seems like only yesterday that I bought her diapers and now I'm already buying her bras and lipstick!

I must admit that sometimes I regret missing all those moments where she needed me to comb her hair or read to her bedtime stories...simply because I've been too busy trying to fullfill my dreams and trying to reach my goals...

Sometimes I ask myself ..why can't I just be contented with what I have rather than keep striving for more and wanting more and more...

But then again I don't think I'm greedy either. What's wrong with being ambitious and to dream big? Everything started from my dreams ....

When you dream of wanting something you will work on it to make it into reality and it makes living a life with a purpose and it becomes colorful and exciting.

I believe we must explore life's adventures and turn it into our own unique story.

Well sometimes I've been told to take it easy and to relax but it's like you're on the treadmill and suddenly it stops and you find yourself still moving...it's weird coz you feel you need to keep the momentum going or you might become complacent.

A lot of things have been planned for this year and I am so looking forward to it. However I just need to also manage my time well with my family as they are my main priority. Many times my daughter would say to me mom you are always on the phone you never talk to me anymore. Gosh I feel so guilty and as I took everything for granted and how it must have affected her .
I promise myself to be a more attentive mom from now on and I really want to.

I suddenly came to realize that it's good to have big dreams and goals but you must not allow it to take a toll in your life untill you forget what is really important to you and the people you love in your life.

When you think you have done everything in your best abilities then it's time to just leave it to god and don't worry too much. Spend more quality time with family and the rest will just fall into the right place.

So it will be a hopeful year for me this year as I hope to accomplish many things but at the same time also hoping to be a better mom ... I love my family very much and this is something that I need to do as I can't afford to hurt them .

Yes I have made many mistakes along the way and maybe got a little bit carried away but then again I always believe that everything happens for a reason and certain people came into your life for a purpose... valuable lesson learned.

Just sharing my thoughts ...and thanks for stopping by...

Shawati

The Mystique of Bali

Family photo taken at Ku De Ta, Bali

It has been quite a great closure of 2010 as far as business developments are concerned. I feel blessed that most of the strategic planning worked thoroughly well and I have only this to say – there are some things cooking and you’ll hear about our latest projects [ Adamaya] soon!

Then to wrap up the year and welcome 2011 , my family and I were invited by our new found friends from Indonesia to Bali in conjunction with the launch of his latest club in Kuta cum Hotel called Stones. We were chauffeur driven the whole entire trip and was provided a luxurious Villa in Seminyak to stay for 6 days. We had a great time exploring Bali and enjoyed every minute of our holiday . Though at times I could recall friends telling me to be cautious and be extra careful especially in Bali. At the back of my mind I thought they must be referring to Tsunami or Bombing….

Yes I was cautious ..but I guess it slipped my mind to be extra careful …taking things for granted as so far everything was going so well and peaceful until……..

On the day after celebrating New Year my husband and I wanted to change more Rupiahs so without hesitating much we went to one of the money changers kiosk at the road side of ‘Legian’ a shopping area in Bali. We saw a few foreigners changing their currencies there and we thought.. ok we’ll do it there.

There were 4 of them, 2 at the counter handling the money and another 2 persons outside the counter talking to the clients. They offered 3million Rupiahs for 1 thousand Ringgit and it was quite a good offer. But I suddenly I felt weird when they said that some of the serial numbers on our Ringgit notes were not acceptable..but still we obliged and gave them 1 Thousand Ringgit and they slowly counted their Rupiahs in 20, 000 Rupiah notes with a total of 3 million right in front of us while we watched on.

During this time my instincts started to caution me that something was not right when the other 2 persons were trying to make petty conversation with me such as where i was from, where did we stay and were we on our honeymoon….etc as if to divert my attention from concentrating on the counting of the notes so I kept looking at my husband and the process of counting he money. Finally it was all stacked up and given to my husband and he put them in his bag..

When we got in our car..my husband took out the money again and wanted to give 1 million Rupiahs to me. So he gave me 1 million Rupiahs but left in his hands only 1.2 million Rupiahs! We counted again and again and at last we realized we have been conned by those money changers and it must have been black magic of some kind coz we didn’t even stop to spend on anything yet! Suddenly my husband remembered that he felt a bit dizzy during the process of counting the money and a breeze of wind came blowing on them at one point before the handed to him. Well you know it didn’t end there…

I went into a shop and wanted to purchase a short dress… then when I took out my wallet to pay …abracadabra …..all the 1 million Rupiah notes which was handed to me by my husband…totally gone ! all of them !!!! At this point I just couldn’t believe that all these were happening to us.. and there was nothing we could do coz if we had gone back to claim the money it would backfired coz there was no proof of cheating on their side as the money were counted in front of our very eyes and handed to us!

We thought and thought and finally came to a conclusion to just accept the fact that we had been conned using black magic and we put our safety as priority. If we had gone back to claim the money…for just a small amount of 1 thousand Ringgit it would have cost us the safety of our lives…

The next day onwards we kept reminding ourselves to be extra careful and watched over each other. Until…..

Today the 3^rd of Jan 2011, our last day before leaving Kuala Lumpur, we decided to stop at a mall called Centro on the way to the airport for lunch and a bit of last minute shopping.

My husband were with my kids and my PA Robin was on his way to join us. The shopping mall was in good ambience and I thought I’d just go upstairs alone to get a pair of shoes despite being warned by my husband that we should stick together no matter what but …stubborn as always I told him that it would just be for a while…

I went up and was browsing around the shoes department and I decided to text my husband to inform him exactly where I was. Then a group of 3 young well dressed girls approached me and asked me where I got the glitter powder from [ I was using glitter powder on my arms and chest at that time].

So I told them and one of them was writing the name of the powder in her mobile phone. Seriously I didn’t feel anything strange at that time coz they seemed like harmless bunch of girls.. Then I kept browsing and finally decided to text my husband again to ask where he was and guess what……..my bag zipper on the front compartment of my ‘TODS’ bag was opened and my phone was not there!!!! Oh god I felt there wasnt any no blood in my body at that point and panicked and went straight to the security. They helped me searched for the phone to all the areas I went to and we even tried to go through the cctv but they couldn’t fast forward it. At the same time I was worried coz they couldn’t call my husband coz it was an international number..

Finally I asked them to just page for him by making an announcement. My husband finally came to meet me but there was no way we could have gotten the phone back.

So the moral of the story …. When people tell you to be careful ..you just have to take it seriously. And for me perhaps I was too stubborn and selfish not to listen to my husband as I always get too carried away when shopping.

Lesson learned!

So everyone please take this experience of mine as a '' food for though''t if you happen to go to the land of mystique….Bali.

Thanks for reading..

Have a great year 2011 and may it bring you great health, prosperity and significance.!

Shawati

Empathy & Understanding -Key To Effective Communication

Hi ,

I realized I 've been neglecting my blog for quite some time and it's time to jot down something.

Been cooped up with work and managed to get away with family to UK for 2 weeks for a good holiday. I'm back and back to reality again - work .

My work involves meeting people a lot and everyday I meet different kinds of people , some are nice, some are difficult and some are quite interesting and some can be quite bitchy and demanding.

Experience and knowledge taught me many things especially when dealing with difficult people.

Though it can be quite stressfull at times but eventually you just get immuned to it and it becomes easier to deal with when you understand the mechanics of how to handle it and understanding the why's of the situation.

Yes it's easy to just show your temper as a way to show authority and power and probably you get a temporary satisfaction but in the end nothing gets solved but only makes things worse. Any actions or decisions done out of anger will definitely make you regret later on or feeling guilty about it. This way is truly an act of impulse done by foolish and 'not so smart people' in the past but not now coz you will be perceived as ridiculing and downgrading yourself if you do it.

Let me just share with you , when dealing with all kinds of people and to maintain good relationship , Empathy and Understanding is Key.

Not by talking but just by listening with concentration to what is being said and understanding the subject matter you are indirectly showing empathy.

Try to see things in different perpectives and not just jump to a conclusion and entertain negative thoughts that could lead to unnecessary problems.

By showing empathy and understanding you'll be able to control the emotional intensity out of the situation.

The main thing is to settle the problem and not aggrevate it.

In communication , words are your tools. So choose only positive words and avoid using words of accusations, humiliations, swearing, belittling people or criticizing.

By practising being calm and humble you will be seen as someone who's matured, well educated and charismatic.

It does not matter if the other party is being ignorant or just deliberately refuse to understand but the bottom line is you are doing the right thing and will earn the respect.

Silent does not mean defeat but it shows that you are confident with yourself.

Lets's put it this way, if God created everyone the same ... then how boring this world would be no challenges .. so lets make the best of every situation in life and who knows it could lead to another adventure.....

Feels good to share. Bye for now! Peace.

Luv,

Shawati